The LGBTQ+ population is outstanding for its financial potential and their interest in trying new technologies. And still, Brazil is the country with the highest rate of LGBTQ+ murders, resulting in a high contrast between power, capital and violence. The use of social networks as a socio-affective tool has undoubtedly consolidated in the last years as a part of the community's agenda, and the freedom to safely engage in affections has always been a priority. Although surrounded by violence and fear, this part of the population has shown itself as a force of capital acknowledged by the market of technology and innovation, thus being a promising space for the creation and development of new digital mechanisms. Platforms such as Grinder aim at making it easier to choose a possible connection, in a fast and uncomplicated way. In this talk we will address the usability if the text in applications such as Grindr and their function as a digital socio-romantic solution for the LGTBQ+ community, with the purpose of understanding the views of this public, making use of design studies and testing methods focused on the user, thus establishing a firmer perception of this population.